In Argentina for thousands of years, men danced together until they were ready to dance with women. First a man learned to follow from another man–doing him a favor. For around a year.
Then, the learner slowly began to learn to follow. After about 3 years, he then took his skills to the ladies…
This should tell us something.
Tonight we achieved the feeling of tango…but I had to let her lead, with her hand on my chest. Then it ‘clicked’.
There is a ‘naturalness’ when it clicks. The technique establishes itself when it does click. You don’t have to talk about it much.